What is FoMO
Fear of Missing Out (FoMO) is the concern that others are leading more interesting and rewarding lives. While some FoMO is completely normal, the stress and anxiety associated with it can become overwhelming.
FoMO has been linked to poor physical, emotional, and cognitive health outcomes, including:
- Poor sleep hygiene
- Lower mood
- Increased anxiety
- Decreased life satisfaction, and
- Poorer academic performance. (Baker, Krieger, LeRoy, 2016)
One study showed that 55% of first year students at UBC believed that their peers had more friends than they themselves had.
48% of students from the same study also believed that their friends and acquaintances had more social connections than they actually did.
First year UBC students who believed that they didn’t have as many friends as their peers reported lower levels of well-being and belonging. (Whilans, Christie, Cheung, Jordan, & Chen, 2017)
Is Technology Affecting You?
Choose your answers from “very rarely,” “rarely,” “sometimes,” “often” or “very often”:
- You spend a lot of time thinking about social media, online gaming, or other internet activity.
- You feel an urge to use online access more and more.
- You use your internet activities in order to forget about personal problems.
- You have tried to cut down on the use of the internet (e.g., social media, gaming) without success.
- You become restless or troubled if you are prohibited or unable to connect to the internet.
- You take part in your internet activity so much that it has a negative impact on your academics, your work, or your relationships.
More than four “often” or “very often” responses indicate a problem.
Seek help at the Student Wellness Centre.
Check out the full self-test from the Center for Internet Addiction Recovery.
Possible Health Issues Related to Long Hours on a Computer
- Back aches from hunching over the computer.
- Dry eyes from staring at a computer.
- Sore wrists from using the keyboard, mouse and/or trackpad.
- Tired because you are staying up late.
Managing the Internet and Social Media
The internet and social media is a part of every student’s life and is essential for completing assignments, doing research, and arranging group project meetings. If you find that you are spending a lot of time online and not enough attention to what is important, try these tips.
- Take a “technology break” each day. At minimum, turn off your data during class, studying, and sleeping.
- Make and use a list of what you need to do online.
- Install a parental control software package and have someone else set the password. Set the settings to allow you to be online at certain times of the day or for a certain number of hours.
- Try not answer every email or message as it comes to you, especially when doing class work. Instead reply to everything once every hour or several times a day.
- Go online as a treat after your homework is done or after an exam to relax for an hour or so.
- Put down technology when it’s time for bed.
Do Something Else
- Explore and develop hobbies or interests that does not involve any technology. Get involved with teams, clubs, sports, music, dancing, painting, and/or gym.
Make It Inconvenient
- Turn off your computer. The process of turning it back on may discourage you from going back on so freely.
- Do not eat any meals or snacks at your computer.
- Keep technology such as televisions, smartphones, and laptops out of your bedroom so you are not tempted to use them during the night.
- Have your computer and internet connection in one room and study in another.
Get Rid of It
- Remove problematic and time waster applications from your computer and phone.
- Delete accounts that you do not need.
- Be discerning about who and what your follow.
- Remove people from your social media that are not real friends. Less “friends” means less people to creep and keep updated with.
Benefits of Decreasing Tech Time
- More time for homework, studying, family, friends, sleep, fresh air, and exercise.
- Improved health and more time for physical activity. Excessive tech use causes carpal tunnel (sore wrists) and less physical activity.
- More time for sleep.
- More time for all the university has to offer (e.g., social events, clubs, and sporting events).
Using the Internet to Find Reliable Information
When you are not sure how reliable the website information is, ask questions such as:
- Is the information current?
- What is the purpose of the information? Is it to sell something?
- What are the author’s credentials?
- Is information consistent with other sources?
Keep Yourself Safe
- Keep your profile information minimal. Your friends will know most of this anyway.
- Crop photos or fuzz out backgrounds to remove any information that strangers could use to locate you.
- Watch out for phishing, which are emails appearing to be from a legitimate company and asking you to confirm personal information such as credit card numbers, passwords, birth dates, or addresses. If in doubt, phone using the number from the website, not the email, to confirm.
- Everything you do on the internet is apparent to other users, and you should be aware of what they are seeing. Take a moment to “Google” yourself and see what others are seeing about you.
- Report identity theft. File a police report immediately if you notice that someone else is using your name, credit card, or other personal information.
- Choose a secure password that combines letters, numbers, and characters. Keep your passwords in a secure location such as on an external flash drive that you keep with you.
- Think before opening email attachments or links and don’t open attachments or links from people you don’t know. If it doesn’t sound like something your friend might send you, email him or her separately to find out if it’s legit.
- Avoid downloading free software online unless you are certain it is from a reputable company. Many free programs are merely a device for delivering adware and spyware.
- Install virus protection software and a firewall. Keep it up to data.
- Watch for Fraud. Learn more by visiting Fraud.org
- If you use online dating sites, look out for potential sexual predators. Plan your first meet be in a public place and always tell a friend where you are going to check up on you after the meet.
What is Internet Addiction?
Any compulsive behavior that interferes with normal living and causes more than normal stress on family, friends, work, or studies is usually an addiction. Internet addiction or internet dependency comes in different forms that focus on excessive gaming, gambling, email, instant messaging, social media, shopping, cyber relationships, or other virtual preoccupations. It tends to dominate your life and becomes more important than family, friends, and work.
Keep a log of the hours you use the computer. Experts say that more than 38 hours per week of recreational internet use may be a red flag for internet addiction.
Types of Internet Addiction
Social media, chat rooms, and other social networking. Research has shown that a social media addiction may produce symptoms similar to those observed in substance and alcohol addiction.
Online Gaming and Shopping
Online gaming, gambling, and shopping are quickly becoming new mental problems. With the instant access to virtual casinos, interactive games, and shopping, addicts lose excessive amounts of money and sometimes jobs and significant relationships.
With so much information at our fingertips, there is a risk for some to keep looking and looking. Individuals who obsessively search, collecting data, and organizing information are typically less productive.
Cyber Sexual Addiction
Individuals who suffer from cybersex/internet pornography addiction are typically engaged in viewing, downloading, and trading online pornography. They may also be involved in adult fantasy role-play chat rooms.